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Some years back , I was privilege to make friends with some very nice ladies and all we could talk about was how we always seems to do everything for our man and yet always seem not good enough. That make me do some research both in theory and practical.
My findings made me realize that we can not only be that girl that he wants but the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
Here are some explanations on how to make him see you serious.
Being a dream woman is not about how or what you look like or even how you weigh. After all, our physical appearances are just reflections of our inner worlds. What make you a dream woman are your emotional sensitivity, your self-awareness, and your ability to communicate who you are effectively and compassionately in the world.

Men are like visual creatures.

They always like there women to look good, smell good, attractive and beautiful. You don’t have to look like a supermodel or anything just look the best you can.

Always keep things fresh, and stay as beautiful as you were when you met, even better improve on yourself to be better than you were.

On the other hand don’t look good for him alone, look and feel good for yourself too.

                   2. ALWAYS CONFIDENT.

Confidence is one of the best traits a human can have, if not the very best. Confidence is a woman way of projecting to the world that she knows what she is doing and how to do it well. She is secure of herself and doesn’t give a shit about what anyone says or does.
When you nag all men hear is blah blah blah, it counterproductive. And you will only make him cave those days he was single and didn’t have to report to anyone.
If you have to nag, why not try this way:
· Don’t raise your voice, talk to him as if he is a child or in a seductive voice. You know how you charm your parent to buy thing when you were younger. That tone is golden. Use it.

· Start every sentence with please or any cute name.

· Phrase your complaint like a question, not a statement. Always suggest not dictate (e.g. intend of saying why did you come late while not try baby would you try and come home on time, please? Add a kiss to it when done, talk to him like a child that is relatively stupid.dont even scream at him when you are doing this.

· Be indirect, deceptive and classy. Nag and complain strategically.

      A dream woman loves her man no matter what his good or bad sides is. He needs to always feel that you love him and you have got his back every time no matter what.

    Mean while loving him is not only about him, it involves loving yourself, his friends and family.
    Kiss him at every turn and always say I love you, never give him reason to be jealous or reduce him getting jealous, and don’t flirt with anyone. Let him know he is your number one guy.

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